Crazy Day! My Life changing experience

March 22 2013!

Oh man! What a Crazy day I had! So it started out great by going and getting my hair cut. I had my day all planned. I was going to go to DSU to sign up for summer classes then go and do some clothes shopping because I can't fit into any of my pants. I usually try but by the end I am just walking around with my button undone and my shirt pulled down so no one can see. Well I did great and make it to hair appointment and Karli did a Great job!!! Then on my way to campus IT HAPPENED!! The worse thing of my life!!! I was going to an intersection and BAM!! They hit me!! I has turning left onto river road and they were coming straight and continuing on Riverside drive and I had a green arrow and they ran the red light!! Yes I got in a Wreck being 15 weeks pregnant! I was freaking out! And it didn't help that I was by myself and Jeff was all the way one the other end of the county in Ivins. So I call him to tell him that I got in a wreck and to come quickly. Nothing with me was hurt or with the Baby thank goodness. No one in the other vehicle got hurt either. It was a mom taking her son to school. I started to freak out now because after I got out and thought about it I could not remember if i had a green arrow or not and I thought it was all my fault, Just something more I need to had to my already full plate. Thank goodness for some good people who were right there with me and saw that we had the green arrow and that I was not at fault. They were so good to talk to me till my family got there. I actually broke down and started to cry and I just hugged this random person but she was so good to allow me to do so. I don't know who this Dad and Daughter were but just real quick I was like to Thank them from the bottom of my heart because if they would not have stopped or been then I probably would have been at fault because I couldn't remember. The cops were also really nice and concerned about my health and the baby! Everyone was really great. So needless to say my planned easy great day was ruined. and my poor baby (Car) Ellie is most likely (BIG MOST LIKELY) not with us anymore. She took a good hard beating to keep me safe.

So with this experience I have been extremely sore and my knees have some cuts and bruises on them from hitting my car in the wreck. Other then keep replaying the stupid accident in my head and worrying about everything I am doing ok. Although it has taken be some long prayers and good hard cries to get me to where I am at today. But thanks to my families and their concern and prayers I believe that I have got better faster. I have such a wonder full family and support group that I don't know what would happen if I lost any of them. I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!

Now I have updated off to study for my boards!!! :)

THE JOLLEYS

Here are some pictures of my car after they had towed it away!

Big Week

March 20, 2013

14 1/2 Weeks!!! Ya made it to 2nd trimester. We are so excited about this, and that we didn't have to deal with what I have see many of my family and friends go through.. MISCARRIAGE! Ug, what a horrible thing have happen to you and your new little family. I am so very grateful my body was able to handle it but I also feel extremely sorry for that have to experience that. I hope that they all know that if there is anything I can do that i will. With the Baby we don't know the sex for two more weeks so we are very excited to find out and to get things rolling with the baby! Heartburn has set in!! :( ugh no fun. It kills and I hate the texture of Tums but I fight through it to make it help me. *** If anyone may know another great way to relive heartburn, I will take your advice! Yes I have a baby bump now and i can for sure feel my stomach grow, even more when I sneeze it hurt so bad! ALL N ALL Baby and Myself are doing great and growing each and everyday. At our 12 1/2 week appointment the babies heartbeat was 153 so right in the middle so know doing the guess with the heart rate to know the gender.

One another note I AM FINISHED WITH CLINICALS!!! YAYAYA I am so grateful for me experience at Mesa View Regional Hospital. The two years flew by, and I feel that there was probably way more that I could have learn but all in all I feel ready to go and conquer my boards and get a job! I am so excited to get into the medical field and actually work, not just for free ;). But I am also going to more school and getting my Bachelors in Sonography. I am so excited to continue my education in sonography, even though it may be tough with a new baby and all but still totally worth it. I start that program in August if I pass my boards. So yes a lot is riding on my board so I sure hope I PASS! I am still working at Cracker Barrel and I am so grateful for the mangers and employees I work with. They are so understanding and willing to work with my Schedules and help me achieve all that I want in life.

As for Jeff, He is still going working his BUTT off doing plumbing plus going to school with plumbing to get his Journeymen license. I am so grateful for him and all that he is doing for our little family. He is so supportive in all that I do and so willing to help me with all the baby ideas I have. He is for sure the BEST in the world. Sorry ladies you may think you have the best BUT you are wrong. JK!! But He is really great!

PICTURES

Update!

March 8 2012

Well I am finally updating again and well with some great news! We are having a baby! Yes most of you may know we were not planning this but we have learned that Heavenly Father has a bigger plan and better plan for us that we just all don't see sometimes. So I am 13 weeks tomorrow (Saturday Mar 9) So my Due date will be around Sept 14, 2013. Yes I know, ONE HOT SUMMER COMING MY WAY! ***Just a little side note for those of you who may not know, we will in ST. George UT, and summer are way hot** But I could not be more happy then to carry our first child and a child of our loving heavenly father. We always talk about it in church about how we are chosen to raise our fathers children, but we when were talking about it in Young Women (yes i am in YWs now) It brought tears of joy and fear to my eyes. Its a scary thought that heavenly father is trusting me (ME RaCail Jolley and Jeff Jolley) to raise this children to become a son or daughter of him, to show them love, happiness, help them see right from wrong, etc. Oh wow the pressures but what wonderful blessings.  So we told our families about us being pregnant at about 9 weeks, Well i told my mom from like day one cause i was so nervous and one of my sisters at about 5 weeks because I was so extremely lucky to get the sinus flu/cough that went around and I was unsure of what I could take. We told the Jolley's by Jeff making his mom and dad shirts and we gave it to them on Valentines day! (I will try and post the video of it) but then we just told my family by sending them a picture! Our family could not be more excited for us, I know the Jolley's are extremely excited to have the FIRST grandchild! We love going down and talking about how I have been feeling, names, ideas, etc. All the stuff you normally talk about when having a baby!

I have been feeling just as normal except that I am always tired, and if I don't eat like every three hours then i am really hungry/and a little upset stomach and get kinda inpatient. I have been having lots of headaches, and it does not help that I do a lot of my schooling on a computer and stare at screen a lot for xrays, but other then that I am doing great.  I hate doing dishes, we do not have a dish washer at the home we rent so all the food and yucky stuff just does not make a good combination for much right now so lucky for me I have a wonderful husband that is willing to do them for now but i am sure i will get pay back later! Also, all i want to do is go swimming, It is still a little cold here to go swimming out side and I am not able to get into a hot tub. So ya, swimming, i know kinda weird but its something different that don't usually want to do. Lucky for me summer is going to be hot and Jeff's parents have a pool in their backyard I will be able to go get in everyday!!!!

Cravings have been not so much weird just want more, I have always loved pickles, but when the pregnancy cravings kicked in I just wanted pickles all the time. I crave fruits and veggies. I am always up for my onion rings and fried corn dogs. Also I am not up to doing much cooking, although I do end up cooking I would rather site on that couch and eat cold cereal or Allocate milk and toast. Other then that to me nothing else has changed that I crave but others my tell you differently.

Jeff is extremely excited about the baby! He actually was more excited then me, of course I have been baby hungry for a while and have been super excited to start a family but when I actually became pregnant i got really nervous and stress about schooling and money and raising a kid!!!! Oh the stress of life! But now that we have talked more about it, have warmed up to the idea, made plan and arrangements with our money, I am TOO super EXCITED to be having a baby!!! Jeff has been so good and understand about all the changes I am going through and the more changes that will be coming but I believe deep down he is scared right out of his pants to be a DAD! But boy oh boy is he going to be a great dad! He is so willing to help me and patient with kids. Oh I just don't know how to explain it but he is going to be a great Dad! I don't know how I got so lucky!

Well thats all the updates for now. I will try and do it more weekly since I will be done with some of my schooling in less then two weeks!!